My main concern right now is figuring out who is viewing my profile in private mode.
Just kidding.
I'm currently wondering whether or not, in the process of trying to close the gap between who we are and who we want to be, we are actually abandoning and rejecting our true selves. Why don't we choose lives that help us thrive instead of struggling to survive outside of our element? Humans are weird.
The idea that we can make anything work for us as long as we want it enough is so flawed. Certain things are meant for you, and you'll recognize them by how easily they flow. Others will be crosses to bear until the bitter end. Sticking it out searching for that light at the end of the tunnel is probably the most absurd notion of any being who knows it has a finite amount of time to pursue life, love and happiness.
You thought it would be a light one because it's a long weekend, didn't you? Philosophy minor and rebel millennial - can't social media properly.
Sometimes you can get stuck in a relationship: You're in a constant state of trigger (fight/ flight/ freeze) instead of feeling intimately connected You've become two old stories instead of two open hearts You're scared or angry most of the time instead of feeling free and authentic It's heavy and complicated instead of light and playful There is more effort placed on control and strategy than growth and gratitude You are there because of a commitment, because you feel you “should”, not because you want to be. What can you do? You basically have 3 options: 1. Stay . Continue the slow, painful process of losing yourself in order to keep the relationship. 2. Let it go . Sacrifice your relationship to save your soul. 3. Change . You both have to be willing and capable of growing together. The goal here is to see if you can get back to love without sacrificing your authentic selves in the process. To do this, you must remove the idea of promises, attachment...
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