Tonight I want to thank the universe that you exist. I choose you and I choose this. I want to build you up. Put your insecurities to rest. You are incredible, wonderful, the absolute best. You're a light. My world shines brighter because of you. I'll say it first. I'll love too much. You are a gift. Please believe me, cause it's true. A gift to me, to us, to you. Tonight I'm here to listen to your point of view. I want to hear your opinions, your cares and visions too. Tonight you will be wanted. Tonight you will be loved. For all of the above and for no reason at all, than simply because I'm me, and you are just so perfectly you.
Sometimes you can get stuck in a relationship: You're in a constant state of trigger (fight/ flight/ freeze) instead of feeling intimately connected You've become two old stories instead of two open hearts You're scared or angry most of the time instead of feeling free and authentic It's heavy and complicated instead of light and playful There is more effort placed on control and strategy than growth and gratitude You are there because of a commitment, because you feel you “should”, not because you want to be. What can you do? You basically have 3 options: 1. Stay . Continue the slow, painful process of losing yourself in order to keep the relationship. 2. Let it go . Sacrifice your relationship to save your soul. 3. Change . You both have to be willing and capable of growing together. The goal here is to see if you can get back to love without sacrificing your authentic selves in the process. To do this, you must remove the idea of promises, attachment...
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