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Other people are not medicine...

I think we've all, unfortunately, been guilty of this at one point or another. We turn to others in our moment of need (which is beautiful and vulnerable and necessary) but we end up using people to make ourselves feel better.
Love that doesn't hurt starts with approaching relationships from the perspective of what we have to give instead of what we want to get. Treating everyone with kindness and respect means we recognize the inherent worth of a person regardless of what they do or give.

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