Is there really a beginning and an end to everything? I’d
like to think there are exceptions. It’s rare, but sporadically, time becomes a
fluid continuum: an always and a never simultaneously. Sort of like when two
people collide and they’re not sure if it’s the first time they ever met or the
last and they are frozen in a moment for all eternity. There is a complete lack
of definition when you lose yourself and all notion of the world around you, as
you find yourself wondering where one person ends and the other begins.
Sometimes you can get stuck in a relationship: You're in a constant state of trigger (fight/ flight/ freeze) instead of feeling intimately connected You've become two old stories instead of two open hearts You're scared or angry most of the time instead of feeling free and authentic It's heavy and complicated instead of light and playful There is more effort placed on control and strategy than growth and gratitude You are there because of a commitment, because you feel you “should”, not because you want to be. What can you do? You basically have 3 options: 1. Stay . Continue the slow, painful process of losing yourself in order to keep the relationship. 2. Let it go . Sacrifice your relationship to save your soul. 3. Change . You both have to be willing and capable of growing together. The goal here is to see if you can get back to love without sacrificing your authentic selves in the process. To do this, you must remove the idea of promises, attachment...
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