Some days it feels like I'll spend the rest of my life trying to get over whatever this was, whatever this is.
Yesterday I felt whole again, even though I found it hard to breathe whenever something made me reminisce.
These days silent tears betray the smile.
Today I wish time would stand still for a while.
One day I want to go back and rewrite what was past.
Other days I accept defeat and refuse to return to that.
Most days I feel my insides turning brittle, and the slightest touch could shatter me.
Every day I long for a better tomorrow, with renewed hope, and no sorrow.
Sometimes you can get stuck in a relationship: You're in a constant state of trigger (fight/ flight/ freeze) instead of feeling intimately connected You've become two old stories instead of two open hearts You're scared or angry most of the time instead of feeling free and authentic It's heavy and complicated instead of light and playful There is more effort placed on control and strategy than growth and gratitude You are there because of a commitment, because you feel you “should”, not because you want to be. What can you do? You basically have 3 options: 1. Stay . Continue the slow, painful process of losing yourself in order to keep the relationship. 2. Let it go . Sacrifice your relationship to save your soul. 3. Change . You both have to be willing and capable of growing together. The goal here is to see if you can get back to love without sacrificing your authentic selves in the process. To do this, you must remove the idea of promises, attachment...
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