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Stagnation


Stagnation is never a good thing. Life is meant to bring joy, vitality, growth, bliss, fulfillment. Don't let your fears or the disordered need for security and comfort keep you from pursuing what will make you thrive as opposed to just survive.

 Where are you settling? Where are not not aligned with your values? How are you showing up?

In life and in love, you should never be asked to stay down, play small, dim your shine. You don't owe anyone a commitment just because you promised it before you knew any different. Embrace change and those who can embrace and navigate it with you will do great things.


Consider the long term impact of what you do today: stay the same or change something. Remember that the rest of your life is bigger than one feeling, one person, one moment or one day.

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