Find the creators...

Find the creators and create with them.
Grow with those who help you grow.
Surround yourself with those who inspire you, who conspire with you, who take your breath away.
Don't be a victim, don't live off the scraps and breadcrumbs others offer.

Givers must be careful not to let themselves be sucked dry by takers.
You'll recognize takers as the ones who are there when they need you but never available when you need them back.
They might be well-meaning, good people. They are most likely drawn to your light.
But until they are ready to add value to your life and do the work to create magic and meaning, lovingly let them go.
They can admire the fruit of your existence from afar.