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You are the one you've been waiting for

I wish someone would tell all women: you can have a full and happy life outside of romantic relationships and you should!
You can pursue your dreams, challenge yourself to grow and seize new opportunities.
You can enjoy life by experiencing new things, being creative, and seeing new places.
You can develop meaningful connections within your family, with friends and coworkers.
You can cultivate a deep care, appreciation and compassion for yourself.
You can volunteer and share your gifts and talents in your community and in the world at large.
You can stay open to love without feeling its loss, if you live in the moment, if you're complete, and your life is complete - as it is.

No one can make you happy, fill the hole, or heal the wounds and it's not fair to ask them to. Be that savior for yourself. Only then will you be ready to fully encounter another person and to create an intimate, inspiring relationship.

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